To prevent Infidelity there are some simple things we can do besides strengthening our marriage.
Boundaries: Being on Guard
Dr. Shirley Glass states that infidelity is about boundaries then anything else. She suggest that we put up appropriate walls in our marriage to protect marriage from outside influences and open up windows of love and communication within our marriage. In Extramarital affairs people do the opposite, walls inside their marriage to block out the spouse and windows to others as well for their influences
Fiercely Loyal
WE should use this to make sure we are so loyal that we don't anything subtlety creep in. We should even control our thoughts as to not wonder so that we are able to keep our spouse in the best of thoughts inside of us and among others as well. We should also work to make sure our spouse comes first among anyone, only Heavenly Father should be put above them.
Successful Marriages and Families Proclamation Principles and Research Perspectives Alan J Hawkins et al Chapter 6 pg 63-64
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